ur bf/gf doesn't like pple to be late. so u make a conscious effort nvr to be late for ur dates. bcos u love him or her.
ur parents dun like u to go home late. do u make a conscious effort not to go home late, or do u justify ur going home late with reasons like "i need to send dear home", "i need to catch up with my friends -very long nvr meet liao leh"?
do u love ur parents?
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if a person's actions go against ur principles, u de-friend him/her.
if a person does something that is in accordance to ur principles, do u den friend him/her?
2 comments:
I think alot of times you tend to take the people you love for granted, especially when they are the ones you know for sure will always be there like family.
Also, different people have different standards and personal ethics. What may be crossing a line with your principles may not seem the same to another. Sometimes you have to make peace with it, or make the painful choice of cutting off.
cant there be a middle ground? where we neither make peace nor cut off? do we (re)negotiate our principles in order to keep our frens? do we (re)align our thinking? in the globalizing world today, do principles and values matter anymore?
society is in such decadence now dat it dreads me sometimes.
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